This blog is about sexuality. . . I guess I was inspired by a blog I’ve read on downelink. It was from a friend of mines, she never quite understood what her sexuality was. Due to having been with males before and now is interested with females.

The definitions of the different types of sexuality are as follows.
Source: The Oxford Dictionary -

Bisexual: sexually attracted to members of both sexes;
: having both sexes in one individual; bisexuality.

Heterosexual: characterized by attraction to the opposite sex

Homosexual: feeling sexually attracted to people of the same sex.

Queer: defines homosexual male.

Stag/Hag: An individual who is straight that hangs out with homosexual people.


My friend posted the entry because she’s never really understood what she was… Or maybe it was it the way that gay females and males like to point fingers at bisexuals, and say “they just don’t know what they want”. My take on it is… How many “gold star” lesbians do you know. Females come out, after years of hiding their sexuality and not knowing how to deal with it. What about the women that live up to the age of 25+ that were engaged to be married to a man, or have a child. Does that make those females any less gay? If someone has come to a realization that they are just simply not interested in a specific sex, does that make them any less of a heterosexual, or homosexual?

My personal take on the topic is no. I don’t think it makes someone less of; who they say they are because of their past, as long as they’re sure about whom they are and who they want to be with. I rather not do the whole label thing, but if you want to call me a full on dyke I wouldn’t be upset lol =P

A friend asked me… “You’re not full gay? Or are you?” My response was, “I guess you could say I am… Dudes are only a money flex”. So there ya go. Now you know. Feedback can be left in the comment box. Up on the left hand side;


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